What Talents Would You Like To Have?

I had a friend who was a talented piano player. Not concert level, but he could play the piano well. He sometimes played for church. He would become annoyed when someone said, “I wish I could play the piano like you do.” 

“Do you? Do you know what I sacrificed to be this good at the piano? Do you know how many times when my friend were out playing baseball I was stuck inside practicing scales? Do you want that? Do you want to make so sacrifices? If not then you don’t really want to play the piano as well as I do.” 

In my opinion, no matter how much I might think I want to be able to play the piano, or the guitar, or be a talented painter. If I’m honest about it, I don’t want those talents enough to make the sacrifices necessary to accomplish them. 

I wish I were better at knowing how to communicate with people. I’ve always been a pretty good speaker. And I can write reasonably well. But, if I were forced to write 250 words and those 250 represented the difference between life and death, I don’t know that I could be compelling and convincing. 

I wish I were a better friend; being one of those people that your friends simply KNOW will be supportive. The kind of friend who shows up in the middle of the night because you need a friend to be there. 

I wish I was a better husband. My lovely wife is patient and kind and spiritual and one of the best people I know. I wish I were as good a husband to her as she’s been a wife to me. 

I wish I was a better father. My father seemed so much wiser than I feel. I’m older than my dad was when I left home. And yet, I often second guess myself. I worry about giving too much advice. And I also worry about not giving enough advice. When should I step in and “fix it” and when should I step back and let natural consequences kick in? I have no idea. I wish I did. 

I want to be a better grandfather, “Papa.” I hope I can impact my grandchildren in a way that they will look back fondly on my memory throughout their lives. 

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